AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE.

AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE.
By Pastor E.A Adeboye (G.O RCCG)
After salvation, the most important choice you
will need to make is who to marry. This choice
is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer

for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy
forever. A bad marriage can affect every other
area of your life. This subject is so important, so
many married people are hoping to be single
again so as to make the right choice. If you are
single please don't just be in a hurry to get
married, you have the best opportunity to
prepare for it. For two people to come together
to live in peace and harmony, they must agree
spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an
elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer
cannot marry an unbeliever.
If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goatmarries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a godly man or a godly woman to marry,nothing can beat this. The devil's primary targetis the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively.

 Ignore your
age and the pressure for a moment, the
pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse.
God has somebody for you but you must set your
priorities right. What do you need in a woman?
What do you need in a man?Marriage is not
about what you want, it is about who you need,
that will make you better while
you make him better. It is about destiny. That is
why you must know your purpose before you
get married. (Genesis 2:18.) You must pray
before you choose. God knows the best person
for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very
easy to know God's will when sex is not
involved. The moment sex is involved and you
want to know His will then He
will blank you out. Why? Because you have
broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past then
you need to repent totally and stay away from
each other for some time then you can seek
the face of God. Your marriage will not be hell on
earth. Your marriage will be honourable in
the name of Jesus Christ.
* Don't marry for sex,
* Don't marry because you are of age,
* Don't marry because you are getting old,
* Don't marry because you are lonely,
* Don't marry because you need someone to
support you financially,
* Don't marry because you
mistakenly got pregnant,
* Don't marry because you don't want to lose the
person,
* Don't marry because of family pressures,
* Don't marry because you like
the idea of marriage and admire every wedding
gown you see,
* Don't marry because all your friends are
getting married.
But
* Get married because you want to fulfil destiny.
* Get married because you want to be a help
mate.
* As a man, get married because you want to
fulfil your purpose.
God will help you in choosing, please let His will
be done. Amen!
Forward to the singles you love. God bless you!